Love

Love is something that changes your life. One of my family members really thought I was a psychopath because I didn’t really have emotions, other than rage, before I had my daughter. Unfortunately that family member didn’t live long enough to see me with child. It wasn’t until my daughter was born in 2000, on her due date, that I felt real love. My love for her is amazing, complicated, and real that it sometimes puts us at odds. I will not go into detail because this post isn’t about love for a child. I thought I was “in love” with a man a few times and I think I am now but it really could be an obsession. (I hate spell check & love). I love harder than most. I trust way too easily because I think all people are like me and honest to a fault but I have come to realize that most people are liars! In this day and age when we have all the LGBT stuff, swingers, and sister wives… Even though you aren’t Mormon like me, why would you lie about not being able to commit. If men would just be honest with women about what they want then more than likely will get what they want. I just can’t deal with liars and deceivers. Tell me the truth. I may be in my feelings for a minute which is allowed but if I really want to deal with you, I will regardless. Everybody is chasing the bag, trying to be a passport Bro’s, or a mini celebrity that it complicates relationships to point where you damn near can’t have one. I just want love, respect, honesty, and compassion from a mate and if you can’t give me that then do not even approach or try. I am a real woman and if I say I wanna be with you then trust that and nothing else. Women have worked so long to be equal to men when we are not! Equal pay for the same job regardless of sex but when it comes to relationships we are not equal. Relationships are about compromise and negotiations… You state what you are willing to do and give while the other does the same, and then you meet on common grounds. I am not a doctor or therapist but I have studied people for 45 years and I feel like I can truly speak on this subject. Let me know how you feel about this. I appreciate the likes but I am a talker and I need my Fly gals and guys to COMMENT! I crave feedback and interaction #seriously. Love y’all, stay in the ether and be Blessed!